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Gene Thomas Gomulka's avatar

Unfortunately, many Catholics don’t realize that being in favor of optional celibacy does not mean being against the celibacy option.

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Augustinus's avatar

I am in my early 40s and unfortunately had a harsh awakening in my early 20s when I visited the Jesuits in the northeast US. I had grown up in a traditional Catholic home and a family history of Jesuit connections going back to the 1930s-50s. As you can guess, the Society of those decades had since changed, which I did not learn until I was surrounded by seemingly endless groups of effete men who had no idea, remotely, of what a straight Catholic vocation is. They were and are in positions of influence despite glaringly obvious homosexual affinities and personalities. I was repulsed. The discernment did not last long as I realized I would be a minority. That order should be suppressed. Next I moved on to the Benedictines whom I didn't trust either, and a diocesan vocations director, who seemed straight but the seminary had a highly questionable rep for gay drinking, flirting and faculty. There is an undercurrent of effeminacy everywhere I looked and I could not live in that environment.

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