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Rev. John A. Frink's avatar

I am one of those few happy heterosexual celibate priests working in the vineyard of the Lord Jesus trying to make a difference, trying to be (or maybe better, achieve some degree of) holiness. I have read this and you most recent articles with great interest and continue to be deeply saddened by this state of affairs and the general lack of faith among my brother priests as well as the bishops who are meant to shepherd us as fathers and brothers.

I wonder if the solution does not lie in Rome or any Chancery but rather in the pews, among the people. But not a demand for "justice" rather a demand for holiness. Holiness that comes from a need the people have for our willingness to be vulnerable. The ability for vulnerability comes, I have learned in recent years, from knowledge of who I am. That question that has been the title of many retreat programs in recent years. Who Am I? I believe there can be only one answer: "I am the beloved son of the eternal Father!" There is no typo... I am not just A beloved son, I am THE beloved son because the reality is that if I were the only person the Father created, He would still send His only begotten Son to save me. Additionally, I cannot say that I am a child of God because what is a child? and who is God? what is the nature of that relationship. But to say SON and FATHER, ahhhh, that is a unique and special relationship. It from that identity that I can be, authentically, who the Father has created me to be. Then with all security and trust can I be vulnerable with the people I am called to serve. It is in that service that I become the Alter Christus I was ordained to be.... and he was THE happy heterosexual celibate!

Demanding this kind of holiness from priests by the people will be the way that this evil will begin to be rooted out of the Church. Neither Rome nor any Chancery will ever address this problem, why should they. The people of God must do this! And they can start by praying what I call my favorite three word prayer: Come Holy Spirit!

Christopher Manion's avatar

A curious omission over the past 23 years is the failure of dioceses to include the cost of *their own* lawyers in defending/responding to/paying off abuse victims.

We know that plaintiff lawyers receive ~35% of the total diocesan payouts. That amount - let's say some $5-7 billion nationally – is reported. But anyone familiar with such cases knows that the lawyers for the diocese are paid an amount at least that large, if not more.

I suggest that folks residing in any diocese (i.e., most of them) that has reached such settlements ask their Ordinary how much their own lawyers charged for defending the case. The USCCB will never answer such questions, of course, but the local chancery is closer to home and more sensitive both to its own flock an to local media, which are starving for content and much more receptive to solid stories.

When challenged by a pastor or other person of goodwill for such brash conduct, we must remind them of our hierarchy's promise in 2002 to provide full transparency and accountability to the faithful.

Help them out. Demand that they fulfill their promises.

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